♥ Thursday, May 14, 2009
8:55 PM
Relationship consists of many stages. Every stage has its own up and down. The up will be the happiness and laughter. The down will be the sadness and the disagreements. But sad to say, only with the down-part, we will grow up further in our relationship. But if fail, giving up is always the easiest way out. To me, giving up is the last resort, and I think it applies to all sets of couples. Giving up is always the most difficult part of a relationship, and both needs a lot of time to heal, or maybe never heal cos the memories are always on our heart and soul following us everywhere.
The longer the relationship, the more difficult it is to maintain it. Every relationship has its own period of honeymoon period too. Some ends early, some likes forever nv ends. But something for sure is, time and understanding and trust is a major thing to take note in a relationship, which most forget to take note. Honestly speaking, I forgot them sometimes and I need to "refresh" myself in order to get myself back into the track, and I need to remind my other half also or rather he will remind me sometimes.
Mask. Mask is a very important prop in a relationship. Different sets of masks must be put in some special situations. Between couples, there shouldnt be any secrets but mask is still needed to hide our true emotional in order to prevent the other half to be too happy or sad. I learn how to put on two kind of masks: smile & laughing. Sadness is something i wouldnt wan to hide and I dunno how to hide. I have been emo-ing and I like to be in front of one peaceful place. It allows me to think of a lot of things and from there, I have come out with solutions to several problems.
Actually relationship is like food. But what kind of food u wan ur relationship to be like, is a problem. Some relationship is like canned food, taste great before expiry date and after expiry date when the food goes bad, it has to be thrown away. Some relationship is like junk food, can keep for so long but still so nice, but when too much air go in, it cannot be consumed anymore. Other kind of relationship, which is the best, like salted vegetable/egg, the longer u marinate the nicer it is, can keep forever. So which one is mine. I want to be the last one. The simpliest food but it can be keep forever(=
I promise someone to have this mindset in mind until the day I leave this world: Never be the one giving up until really cannot take it. Then relationship will be like salted vegetable/egg with no expiry date.
